About Messy But Winning: Our Story & Mission

I’m Jaime Waters, the creator of this space. If you’ve ever felt like you were following the “right” life plan, only to wake up one day and realize you want more—you’re not alone.

Midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s an upgrade. But no one hands you a roadmap for reinventing yourself at 40+.

That’s why I created Messy But Winning—to help women flip the script on outdated expectations, rewrite their future, and take control of their mindset, money, and momentum.

💡 What you’ll find here:
     ✔ Practical tools to reset and redefine your life—without the fluff
     ✔ Financial strategies to break free from survival mode and build real security
     ✔ Straightforward insights on personal growth (without toxic positivity)

Life doesn’t come with a manual—but that doesn’t mean you have to figure it out alone.

Let’s do this together. 🔥